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  1. Into what? Child porn is indeed a business of its own right now slant
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  2. I am not into death penalty, but severe physical punishment for child abuse? I'm in! Humiliate them just like them humiliated their victims, that's what I feel.
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      CommentAuthorsdtom
    • CommentTimeJul 20th 2009
    I just wonder about the whole money thing
    listen to more classical music!
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      CommentAuthorDemonStar
    • CommentTimeJul 20th 2009 edited
    PawelStroinski wrote
    I am not into death penalty, but severe physical punishment for child abuse? I'm in! Humiliate them just like them humiliated their victims, that's what I feel.


    Agreed. Tit for tat, simple.

    There should also be severe punishment for animal cruelty.
  3. Agreed.
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    • CommentAuthorTimmer
    • CommentTimeJul 20th 2009
    DemonStar wrote
    PawelStroinski wrote
    I am not into death penalty, but severe physical punishment for child abuse? I'm in! Humiliate them just like them humiliated their victims, that's what I feel.


    Agreed. Tit for tat, simple.

    There should also be severe punishment for animal cruelty.


    Animal cruelty needs to be nipped in the bud from an early age, animal cruelty has strong links to child abuse ( scalding, beating etc )
    On Friday I ate a lot of dust and appeared orange near the end of the day ~ Bregt
  4. Might be, you'll start with kicking your dog and 10 years later kill your neighbour too.
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      CommentAuthorSteven
    • CommentTimeJul 20th 2009
    If there's one thing that really makes my blood boil and hurts me deep to the core, it's animal cruelty. (Which is why I have ambiguous feelings about being a meat eater. It's not necessarily animal cruelty, but it isn't exactly animal caring either! It's so easy to be a meat eater when it's all nicely packaged up in plastic in a supermarket aisle.)
    • CommentAuthorTimmer
    • CommentTimeJul 20th 2009
    I know exactly what you mean, it's a real dichotomy.
    On Friday I ate a lot of dust and appeared orange near the end of the day ~ Bregt
  5. I think we get away with it by telling ourselves that we (the consumers) didn't KILL the animal we eat, so it's acceptable for use.
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      CommentAuthorDemetris
    • CommentTimeJul 20th 2009 edited
    As for the afternoon, what can i say? I love that passionate youngster, even if that's in a strange way, but still! (make sure you watch the entire video heh)
    Love Maintitles. It's full of Wanders.
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      CommentAuthorsdtom
    • CommentTimeJul 20th 2009
    I just think that maybe mother nature will say enough and just revolt, eliminating all of us
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      CommentAuthorsdtom
    • CommentTimeJul 21st 2009
    Here is one for you humanists to grapple with. Dante Stallworth, a receiver for the football Pittsburgh Steelers killed a pedestrian while under the influence. He got 25 days in jail. Lawyers rule
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      CommentAuthorSteven
    • CommentTimeJul 21st 2009 edited
    I'm no expert on these things, but I'm pretty sure the guilt will stay with him for the rest of his life, so I imagine that's punishment enough. But I would say 25 years is a more suitable a sentence. An example needs to be set plus a severer punishment clearly needs to be enforced... you can't just rely on his guilt; it's really more of "bonus punishment".

    :IMO:

    ^we need one of these too.
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      CommentAuthorsdtom
    • CommentTimeJul 21st 2009
    25 days is a joke, sorry
    listen to more classical music!
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      CommentAuthorSteven
    • CommentTimeJul 21st 2009
    Absolutely.
  6. He should get few years, indeed. Maybe he's a kind of celebrity?
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    • CommentAuthorTimmer
    • CommentTimeJul 21st 2009
    sdtom wrote
    25 days is a joke, sorry


    It is.
    On Friday I ate a lot of dust and appeared orange near the end of the day ~ Bregt
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      CommentAuthorBregje
    • CommentTimeAug 11th 2009 edited
    I searched for this topic again because I wanted to post about an interesting interview I saw on TV, but then I read the whole previous discussion first. It is somewhat related to eachother.

    I watched an interview with Trudy Dehue who is a Dutch psychologist and philosopher of science. She wrote a book 'The depression-epidemic'. She wanted to research how the meaning of depression has changed and how / why so many people are depressed these days (or called depressed, by a doctor or by themselves). She is only analyzing the problem and not judging other peoples depression. It is more about the meaning and label of depression. While doing research she came across the role of pharmaceutical industry and antidepressants and a part of her book is about that too. She is hoping there will be independent research of medication instead of research funded by the pharma industry. I thought the interview was very interesting, especially the parts about what the norm is in western society these days and why people who do not fit that norm are easily called depressive.

    She also talked a bit about homosexuality because it is a label too, like depression, made by society. There were times when homosexuality was so completely accepted it wasn't even mentioned, just like we don't mention our hair colour these days. But society changed and had other expectations and that's how the label of homosexuality became such a big deal. Very interesting. In this show the interviewed guest always brings favorite clips, videos and songs. She also chose the scene from a movie (don't remember) with Al Pacino where he says 'I'm not gay, I just fuck men'. She thought that was a good example of how to explain the effect of categorisation, just like with homosexuality.

    Anyway, I thought that fitted the discussion before, but I just wanted to say it was a very interesting interview and I'd like to read the book, which is about depression and medication (and easy access to heavy medication). They even showed commercials for anti-depressants from the 50's. Unbelievable the different way of looking at it back then...

    For Dutchies, it will be aired again this saturday afternoon, so if you're interested in the hype of depression (or so it seems), anti-depressants and changing norms in society:
    http://www.vpro.nl/programma/zomergaste … /42152366/
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      CommentAuthorsdtom
    • CommentTimeAug 11th 2009
    The depression syndrome is very well documented in the U.S. Of course the drugs accomplish two things. $$$$ and a quick fix which only masks symptoms.
    Thomas
    listen to more classical music!
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      CommentAuthorMartijn
    • CommentTimeAug 11th 2009
    I know Trudy's work and she is a lot more balanced than the interview suggests (basically all she really says is "don't take too many anti-depressants too quickly, and more research is a good idea", which I wholeheartedly concur with.

    That said, I am a HUGE believer in biopsychology.
    Depression always has a physical side (whether it be at the neuroreceptor side, or natural dopamine or serotonin). Why on earth wouldn't anyone want to tackle that side together with the actual trauma that has caused depression?

    It's been proven time and again that the most successful (in terms of time and effect efficiency) treament is not "either...or...", but a combination of therapy and medication. Bully for science.

    As to the prevalence of depression in the last century, I tend to agree with much she says.
    There is a a clear trend towards fashionable man. No longer are we doomed to walk in our father's footsteps as we were in the middle ages. We have choices, options and possibilities. And expectations we need to rise up to. Bars we and society set ourselves. And more often than not it's the gaping hole between expectations, speed and societal norms and standards that leads some who cannot -for whatever reason- keep up or compete or find a focus into depression.

    Nothing new there.
    But four hundred years ago, those who couldn't keep up were simply left behind.
    Or talked to a priest.
    Or rejoiced in the fact that at least they'd get a reward in the afterlife.

    The psychologist has now taken the role of the priest.
    And the other two options simply aren't valid in this society any more.

    Yes, there's more depression in the west since a hundred and fifty years.
    It's unavoidable.
    We will just have to accept it, and deal with it as best as we could.
    'no passion nor excitement here, despite all the notes and musicians' ~ Falkirkbairn
  7. Bregje wrote
    I searched for this topic again because I wanted to post about an interesting interview I saw on TV, but then I read the whole previous discussion first. It is somewhat related to eachother.

    I watched an interview with Trudy Dehue who is a Dutch psychologist and philosopher of science. She wrote a book 'The depression-epidemic'. She wanted to research how the meaning of depression has changed and how / why so many people are depressed these days (or called depressed, by a doctor or by themselves). She is only analyzing the problem and not judging other peoples depression. It is more about the meaning and label of depression. While doing research she came across the role of pharmaceutical industry and antidepressants and a part of her book is about that too. She is hoping there will be independent research of medication instead of research funded by the pharma industry. I thought the interview was very interesting, especially the parts about what the norm is in western society these days and why people who do not fit that norm are easily called depressive.

    She also talked a bit about homosexuality because it is a label too, like depression, made by society. There were times when homosexuality was so completely accepted it wasn't even mentioned, just like we don't mention our hair colour these days. But society changed and had other expectations and that's how the label of homosexuality became such a big deal. Very interesting. In this show the interviewed guest always brings favorite clips, videos and songs. She also chose the scene from a movie (don't remember) with Al Pacino where he says 'I'm not gay, I just fuck men'. She thought that was a good example of how to explain the effect of categorisation, just like with homosexuality.

    Anyway, I thought that fitted the discussion before, but I just wanted to say it was a very interesting interview and I'd like to read the book, which is about depression and medication (and easy access to heavy medication). They even showed commercials for anti-depressants from the 50's. Unbelievable the different way of looking at it back then...

    For Dutchies, it will be aired again this saturday afternoon, so if you're interested in the hype of depression (or so it seems), anti-depressants and changing norms in society:
    http://www.vpro.nl/programma/zomergaste … /42152366/


    A famous and openly gay Polish celebrity said once "I hate fags, I just fuck them".
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      CommentAuthorMartijn
    • CommentTimeAug 11th 2009
    Conversely a famous gay Dutch writer once exclaimed: "I'm into men. Not fags!"
    'no passion nor excitement here, despite all the notes and musicians' ~ Falkirkbairn
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      CommentAuthorBregje
    • CommentTimeAug 12th 2009 edited
    Martijn wrote
    That said, I am a HUGE believer in biopsychology.

    I don't know. I do know from experience what hormones can do. wink

    I'm more interested in definitions and labels. I like the expression 'suffering from a diagnosis'.
    I've seen it happen. People who are glad they know what's wrong with them, as if that actually changes something. OK, you can use the info to really make a change but more often people blame everything on their 'disorder', and they feel quite comfy with their diagnosis, like phew, now I know what's wrong with me and I understand everything and when I don't function properly I can show them my label.

    It's a shame that the more labels there are, the less people are average (no one is average of course!) and something seems to be wrong. There is no room for differences anymore, for just being who you are and being OK, good enough. And it already starts in preschool and school. Of one class perhaps three children are 'average' and the rest is intellectually gifted, highly sensitive, autistic, ADHD, not social enough, not happy enough, not emotional enough, too slow, too fast, too tall, too short, whatever. Why can't children be just children anymore? Because when something goes wrong ( 'wrong' meaning not being able to live up to society's high expectations) they blame school for not acting soon enough.

    BTW, I'm also not so much interested in serious depressions but more in people who think they are depressed or feel depressed. And where to draw that line? Why do people think they are depressed, why do they feel that way? How do they think they should feel and should live? Books, magazines, websites, so many stuff for people who feel something is not right, not perfect...
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      CommentAuthorMartijn
    • CommentTimeAug 12th 2009
    I completely agree with everything you say.
    (Sorry. That wasn't a particularly helpful or insightful post on my part. dizzy )
    'no passion nor excitement here, despite all the notes and musicians' ~ Falkirkbairn
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      CommentAuthorsdtom
    • CommentTimeAug 12th 2009
    OK, you can use the info to really make a change but more often people blame everything on their 'disorder', and they feel quite comfy with their diagnosis, like phew, now I know what's wrong with me and I understand everything and when I don't function properly I can show them my label.


    I do this as a result of the stroke because some people just don't understand what happened. They observe and can conclude that there is nothing wrong with me.

    Thomas
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  8. Labels, doesn't the society love them? It's such an easy thing to put things into stereotypes and label people. And even if, what is worse HAVING a label, or being unable to fit in any of them?

    I have a friend in Hawaii. She's half-Japanese, half-white. And because of the "half" part she is rejected by BOTH white and Japanese (which is the biggest minority in Hawaii) communities. What the hell is that about? Reminds me of the mischling concept. Or not really?
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      CommentAuthorsdtom
    • CommentTimeAug 14th 2009
    Society has to put a label on you or they won't know what to do with you. I made the mistake yesterday of saying as a society we've failed because everything revolves around money. If we had no money we'd be a lot better off.
    Thomas
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  9. What was the reaction to that?
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      CommentAuthorsdtom
    • CommentTimeAug 14th 2009
    PawelStroinski wrote
    What was the reaction to that?


    I was talking like a Communist.
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