Saturday Night Feverish ( now incorporating Manic Monday's to Therapeutic Thursday's )

It will happen... you wish for it and it will happen. I know it takes time, I know it's hard but you will find that someone.

Wishing for it won't do you much good I'm afraid, not unless you put yourself on the line and put your cards on the table. The chance usually will not come along unless you make it happen.

Pawel, if I could, I'd be your wingman ANY day my friend!

Bored????

Exactly my thoughts. (Boy/girl) friends don't end up at your doorstep coincidentally. I've heard that it comes to you when you least expect it, so when you're not trying too hard or looking for it too hard. (Probably because you're just being you then...)


I don't have the boy/girl friends problem as you may know and no experience with that, but I recognize some of it when it comes to friends. It is clear to me that I won't make new friends if I don't go out and actively make them myself. I like the expression of putting your cards on the table. Just meeting people is not enough, you have to give and show a little bit of yourself of course.

Well, happy easter everyone. It is the time of new beginnings (and fertility haha) so good luck to everyone with making friends and making love!

You have a point there darl but it always depends on what a man or a woman wants. Ief you just want to "have a go" you will find someone in your doorstep provided you look nice and act beautifully as you very well pointed out. But if this is not your intention exactly you tend to remain invisible despite good looks. Believe me, I know!!!
EDIT: By the way, any ideas on how I'll spend my Sunday night with him making him sorry for leaving me alone yesterday?
Be careful of what you are going to say! Come on D.! I'm counting on you!!!

Drive him crazy (the good kind of crazy ) so he'll know what he was missing and he won't want to miss THAT again! It's the only way, captivate him, excite him. Have the upper hand and control things, make him "loose" it a bit, the good kind again! Bitching and whining - despite what some women think, will do exactly the opposite, i.e. further reinforce his choice of leaving you alone the night before!

As for the other thing, i wasn't strictly talking on just "having a go"; it generally always depends on what attracts you on other people, not all of us have the same likes / dislikes, tastes and standards as to what we like when we first see a new person.

But if you won't happen to meet that that somebody through common friends and big-company night outs, and you're going to approach a stranger you've seen and you like, i'd say that the general rule is that the man should do the first step in those situations, thus what i said; although, truth to be told, most youngsters won't even dream of doing something as direct as that and i've happen to known / be told or actually see cases where the babe makes the first step, either by general body language and facial signs / smiles or by actually going there and talking to the dude!

You do realise what the term 'student' implies do you not??

Booze and traffic cones.

20 years ago it used to be traffic cones and oil lamps ( the kind used for roadworks ), beware, you can be arrested for these offences.

my advice is don't get caught

Oh it is. Our government wastes so much resources on making and placing bloody traffic cones! They're a fucking nuisance. So we steal 'em.

But they are not always annoying.

Luckiest cone in the world.

Can be. For the first time ever ( at least when I've been there ) there was a vicious punch-up in a regular pub I go to....moronic cretins Mind you, I was so stoned on the tabs I took that I was mellow as a sun-baked lizard viewing it all through dispassionate eyes

Pfft....that's like a cheap pint here in Norway!