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As Above, So Below - the religion thread (formerly: People of California, beware)
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- CommentAuthorPawelStroinski
- CommentTimeNov 20th 2011
Tom, recently the approach to alcohol and antidepressant medication has changed. I have been on antidepressants before and I am on them right now and my psychiatrist has prepared me a whole set of rules how to drink while I am on the medication. Rather than just quitting you can ask the psychiatrist for it.http://www.filmmusic.pl - Polish Film Music Review Website -
- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeNov 20th 2011 edited
sdtom wrote
Like I said Stephen I just didn't get it.
Tom
It's an animation based on a 'beat' poem by Australian comedian Tim Minchin and it deals with ignorance, common sense, epistemology and the beauty of reality as revealed by science without necessitating the need to believe in various supernatural practises and claims. Minchin places himself within the poem as the protagonist and uses the caricature 'Storm' as the antagonist to bring up fraudulent claims against science, in particular pharmaceutical companies, medication and the nature of knowledge, all of which are knocked down by Minchin's rebuttals and rants within the poem. It's comical in its approach, but has a very serious message within it.
For clarity's sake, it doesn't suggest or advocate taking alcohol and anti-depressants at the same time. The specific subject of anti-depressants is not brought up in the poem.
It does have people drinking wine though.
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- CommentAuthorsdtom
- CommentTimeNov 20th 2011
It does help
Tomlisten to more classical music! -
- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeNov 20th 2011
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*minus the anti-depressants -
- CommentAuthorsdtom
- CommentTimeNov 21st 2011
very clever
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- CommentAuthorBregje
- CommentTimeNov 21st 2011
plindboe wrote
Bregje,
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Peter
Thank you very much for your extensive reply. I read it with much interest.
From professional and personal point of view.
I like hearing experiences like this, because it makes me realize there are still good things done with diagnoses and medication. Of course I know good things are done with it, but I am more often confronted with the not-so-good side of it, with children with a label that just makes me raise my eyebrow and wonder if there is really something 'wrong'. So it's nice to hear the stories where problems are actually solved or should I say: where lives are improved and people get fair chances in life.
A risk is also that I am not an expert so my judgement can easily be wrong. Like you say some symptoms are not very well known and coping mechanisms can hide the disorder too. And I'm just a teacher and not a doctor or a psychologist! (The lack of knowledge is another problem that some doctors who are against the amount of prescribed medication talk about: they say people who have some of the symptoms are too easily diagnosed (by real doctors!), while something else is going on. Needless to say, we all want that a diagnosis is right, and not confused with something else...)
Anyway, to be honest, the labels and diagnoses scare me off a bit and there are some worries about my son every now and then, and I keep waiting to do some tests, even now, I just keep postponing it because I'm afraid I will do more harm than good. But more and more people tell me 'well, just a test can't do much harm, can it?' And I guess that's true, although the tests itself send a message to the child already, without even knowing what the results will be. By the way, I'm not talking about ADHD, I am talking about his anger and frustration plus him being clever in certain fields. We are wondering if those things are linked some how. Like all moms I just want him to be happy so I'm thinking about what to do. But being a teacher, and seeing horrible parents who think their child is so special, causes sort of an aversion for all this, if you understand what I mean...
From a teacher's point of view there are some horrible parents you know: overprotective parents, parents who don't care enough, parents who think their child is more important than the rest, parents who are so afraid and insecure they infect their children with it, etc. So I'm really thinking what the best way is.
Thanks very much for your reply!
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- CommentAuthorsdtom
- CommentTimeNov 21st 2011
As I said earlier the doctor in many cases is taking the easier softer way. Give a pill and hope it goes away.
Tomlisten to more classical music! -
- CommentAuthorBregje
- CommentTimeNov 21st 2011
Well, I'm glad knowledge of psychological problems has improved a lot with doctors.
Just take hyperventilation / panic attacks: before if you would go to a doctor and say 'I have pain on my chest, and a tinkly feeling in my arm and I can't breathe!' he would call the ambulance. Now doctors have much more knowledge about the symptoms of stress and the symptoms of depression and for instance panic attacks, which are very scary but harmless.
It really differs how easy they will prescribe pills. Thankfully here usually you will be sent to a psychiatrist before you get medication for depression or things like that. But on the other hand it has become easier for a doctor to prescribe medication and I know it happens more often.
When I had stress symptoms I was glad the doctor said 'solve your problems at work' instead of 'here's a pill'
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- CommentAuthorPawelStroinski
- CommentTimeNov 21st 2011
sdtom wrote
As I said earlier the doctor in many cases is taking the easier softer way. Give a pill and hope it goes away.
Tom
The general consensus though is that medication *should* be combined with psychotherapyhttp://www.filmmusic.pl - Polish Film Music Review Website -
- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
Anyone have any thoughts on Christmas and secularism?
I ask mostly because our local reverend has written a "Christmas letter" in a local newspaper with the usual Christian hokum about Christmas and its true meaning, and I'm rather tempted to write a "Secularist Christmas letter" in response to it. -
- CommentAuthorplindboe
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
The true meaning of Christmas is prezzies!, family, food, snow, decorated tree, Santa and Wham!'s "Last Christmas" constantly playing on the radio. I don't mind the Jesus aspect either. Some lovely hymns.
We all make our own meaning, which is why it can be celebrated by all, in our own various ways.
Anyway, there's no historical basis for thinking that Jesus was born on the 25th of december. The date was likely chosen because of the popular pagan traditions taking place on the same date celebrating the winter solstice, and Christians co-opted the holiday. Probably why we still adhere to pagan traditions, like exchanging gifts, and bringing trees into our homes and decorating them (something the Old Testament strictly prohibits curiously enough). So if we truly have to get back to the fundamental meaning of Christmas, it would be entirely pagan.
Personally I like the whole amalgamate of pagan traditions, Christian elements, weird supernatural myths like Santa, Christmas movies, the music, the traditional food etc. All comes neatly together to create a special season unlike any other.
Peter
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- CommentAuthorPawelStroinski
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
While the year and date of birth of Christ is pretty elusive, because the Medieval scholar who described the date of birth of Christ badly counted the astronomical data, the true meaning of Christmas is Christ's Mass.
The religious meaning of Christmas is right in the name. It IS a religious holiday, because it has Christ in name. There is nothing secular behind the idea.http://www.filmmusic.pl - Polish Film Music Review Website -
- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
Completely agree with you Peter. The true meaning of Christmas is whatever you want it to be! For me it's presents, decorations, food and family. And alcohol. Plenty of alcohol.
What annoys me about this particular reverend's letter is the way she preaches the Christian Christmas as the only true form of Christmas, as well as neglecting to mention its Pagan roots and the Christian suppression of Paganism. She rightly preaches about goodwill, caring and others less fortunate - all things I agree are important. But keep your beliefs to yourself, please! Don't tell me what my Christmas should mean.
And if it's hypocritical to celebrate Christmas as a secularist (an argument I've actually heard before), then it's just as hypocritical to enjoy religious art and music without sharing Christian beliefs!
PawelStroinski wrote
The religious meaning of Christmas is right in the name. It IS a religious holiday, because it has Christ in name. There is nothing secular behind the idea.
Not originally, no. But it's since grown into a secularist holiday. Never have we in our family hung up our secularist hats to recognise Christian beliefs on Christmas day. -
- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
Also, I suppose we shouldn't confuse semantics. The true meaning of the word Christmas is indeed Christ's Mass (as far as I know), but the meaning of Christmas as a holiday can be all manner of things to all manner of people. -
- CommentAuthorplindboe
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
PawelStroinski wrote
While the year and date of birth of Christ is pretty elusive, because the Medieval scholar who described the date of birth of Christ badly counted the astronomical data, the true meaning of Christmas is Christ's Mass.
The religious meaning of Christmas is right in the name. It IS a religious holiday, because it has Christ in name. There is nothing secular behind the idea.
So I suppose you think thursday is Thor's day as well? It's right there in the name! Fact is that words and traditions evolve and acquire new meanings over time.
And there's plenty of secularity, if you make it so. There's nothing Jesusy about Santa, decorated trees, food, presents, Wham!. If you want to sit and worship Jesus all Christmas day, knock yourself out. But don't dictate your meaning of the holiday to me as if you have the sole objective meaning.
Peter
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- CommentAuthorplindboe
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
Steven wrote
Completely agree with you Peter. The true meaning of Christmas is whatever you want it to be! For me it's presents, decorations, food and family.
Same here.
Steven wrote
And alcohol. Plenty of alcohol.
Oh, yes!








Steven wrote
What annoys me about this particular reverend's letter is the way she preaches the Christian Christmas as the only true form of Christmas, as well as neglecting to mention its Pagan roots and the Christian suppression of Paganism.
That's rather typical. When Christians talk about Christianity they conveniently tend to forget all the bad things their religion has caused, and act like Christianity has brought nothing but purity and goodness.
Steven wrote
And if it's hypocritical to celebrate Christmas as a secularist (an argument I've actually heard before), then it's just as hypocritical to enjoy religious art and music without sharing Christian beliefs!
Some people actually make that argument too. My own usual retort is that if it's hypocritical to celebrate Christmas as an atheist, then it's just as hypocritical to celebrate Christmas if you don't believe in Santa.
People don't seem to understand that we believe in Jesus just as little as we believe in Santa. It's all the same to us; cute, made up myths that have become part of a holiday I enjoy. That I don't believe in Jesus has as little importance for me on Christmas as not believing in Gandalf and still being able to enjoy the LOTR movies.
Peter
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- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
I may have to steal some of your words and retorts to include in this 'secularist response'.
(As long as you don't mind your name appearing as a credit in a very small local newspaper many miles from where you live!)
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- CommentAuthorplindboe
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
Steal away. And as long as you credit me as Peter the Magnificent, then I promise you there won't be any copyright infringement lawsuits.
Peter
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- CommentAuthorPawelStroinski
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
There is a reason why Americans decided for the universally meaningless phrase Happy Holidays, backing off Merry Christmas about a decade ago.
If you discuss Christmas, you discuss a religious concept in and of itself. It is pure semantics, yes, but what I mean is that lashing out at a reverend for saying that Christmas is a religious idea is pretty much wrong, because the true concept of Christmas is to (whether it's the right or wrong date) observe Christ's birthday date.
It's a bit like my observation long time ago that most of the people screaming out "God, Jesus" or whatnot, are mostly atheist. Which is, to be honest, a bit funny.
My own religious views (being on the theist side, but not far right, and I never for example go to Church on Christmas) don't get into a basically linguistic discussion that is at heart here: If you want to stay really secular, stop calling it Christmas.http://www.filmmusic.pl - Polish Film Music Review Website -
- CommentAuthorplindboe
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
PawelStroinski wrote
If you want to stay really secular, stop calling it Christmas.
Thursday was named after the Norse god Thor. You use the word "thursday" even though you don't believe in the god Thor. If you don't believe in the god Thor, stop calling it thursday.
Why do I have to make this point again?
Pawel, you're too smart not to get this simple concept: Different words have different meanings to different people.
Peter
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- CommentAuthorPawelStroinski
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
OK, but don't attack a reverend, because he gets back to the original meaning and has the right to do so. From a historical and a linguistic standpoint she is right.http://www.filmmusic.pl - Polish Film Music Review Website -
- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
PawelStroinski wrote
There is a reason why Americans decided for the universally meaningless phrase Happy Holidays, backing off Merry Christmas about a decade ago.
If you discuss Christmas, you discuss a religious concept in and of itself. It is pure semantics, yes, but what I mean is that lashing out at a reverend for saying that Christmas is a religious idea is pretty much wrong, because the true concept of Christmas is to (whether it's the right or wrong date) observe Christ's birthday date.
I will not be lashing out, I will simply be offering a secularist's view of Christmas in response to this particular reverend's Christmas letter. This letter was sent out to non-church members, and implicitly states a 'true' form and meaning to Christmas with a Christian agenda. I don't mind that she preached about goodwill, but it irked me that she spent a good two paragraphs explaining what Christmas is really about without offering the reader to make up their own mind.
My own religious views (being on the theist side, but not far right, and I never for example go to Church on Christmas) don't get into a basically linguistic discussion that is at heart here: If you want to stay really secular, stop calling it Christmas.
Christmas is what I've always known it as. As Peter has pointed out, the names of the week come from rather specific traditions, but that doesn't mean it's hypocritical to use the names without conforming to original beliefs of those traditions, or even recognising the traditions at all. I think it's rather silly and petty to avoid a particular word simply because you don't adhere to its origins.
I will continue to celebrate Christmas!
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- CommentAuthorplindboe
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
PawelStroinski wrote
OK, but don't attack a reverend, because he gets back to the original meaning
The reverend, according to Steven, was talking about the true meaning, not the original meaning. There's a huge difference between these two. Some of our points have been that there is no single true meaning, but that people have different reasons and ways to celebrate the holiday, i.e. different meanings.
PawelStroinski wrote
and has the right to do so.
Of course, no one is denying her that right. And Steven has just as much right to write a rebuttal.
PawelStroinski wrote
From a historical and a linguistic standpoint she is right.
Historical? Depends on when your cutoff point is. In the year 300 the celebrations were entirely pagan.
Linguistic? Who cares? (besides linguists) The planet Saturn is named after a roman god. It would be silly to start preaching that the true meaning of the planet is roman mythology, as if that somehow validates the belief system, or means that I must adhere to the mythology before I will be allowed to mention the name of the planet.
Peter
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- CommentAuthorMartijn
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
PawelStroinski wrote
OK, but don't attack a reverend, because he gets back to the original meaning and has the right to do so. From a historical and a linguistic standpoint she is right.
No, the reverend should be attacked because it is suggested that that is the ONLY (and even more arrogantly and worryingly) the only PROPER way to celebrate Christmas.
Which of course it isn't.
I won't reiterate the excellent points Peter made, but the mere fact that the Church adopted and ordained a thorougly pagan concept with all the trimmings, called it 'Christ's Mass' and we, through 1500 years of VERY thorough propaganda now have been drilled to call it that historically, by no means whatsoever makes that the true meaning.
If anything it just makes it a classic historic example of rebranding.'no passion nor excitement here, despite all the notes and musicians' ~ Falkirkbairn -
- CommentAuthorMartijn
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
Linguistically the word Christmas indeed simply means Christ's Mass.
But how the definition and etymology of a word relates to the meaning of a celebration rather escapes me.
If I would call it Light Feast or Yule and would celebrate it by giving presents and being nice to people, would that in any way diminish either the celebration or my actions?
Again, as with so many of these issues, it's all about the suggested exclusiveness. The claim to hold the only one, true answer or view. "WE are right, and BECAUSE we are right, YOU by definition are wrong".
A bit of an issue with religions at large, really...'no passion nor excitement here, despite all the notes and musicians' ~ Falkirkbairn -
- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
After making perfectly valid points about greed, goodwill, love, peace and caring for other less fortunate, she ends with this:
What is Christmas really all about?
It is about a world caught up in greed and selfishness and the miracle of a tiny baby born into that mess; about hope that there is a better way, that we can find the way of love and peace amongst people, that we can again learn the joy of giving; about standing on a starlit night and seeing the star that will lead us to that humble stable where the Christ child lies.
It is about knowing that there will never be anything as precious as the gift we were given that first Christmas night and knowing that on that first Christmas night time [an] eternity stood still and God himself came among us. And that really is cause for celebration.
Wishing you a very blessed and very peaceful Christmas! - [Rev.] Pauline Scott -
- CommentAuthorMartijn
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011 edited
Erm, to be honest...what did you expect from a reverend?
A heartfelt plea for more Disney films?
From HER point of view, that IS what Christmas is really about.
From mine or yours ( I presume
) it's not even in the same ball park.
I rather like her metaphors, and can't really -putting myself in her shoes, or sandals if you will- see any fault or annoyance.
However, the fact that this letter apparently was sent out SPECIFICALLY to non-Churchers, certainly cries out for a dignified rebuttal.'no passion nor excitement here, despite all the notes and musicians' ~ Falkirkbairn -
- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
Well that's exactly it. If she had included the words "To me..." or something similar at the start of her final paragraphs, that I suppose would be fine. But she didn't.
As well as the fact this was presented on the first page of a publication which inevitably includes non-church going readers, it does rather call out for a secularist rebuttal. (Which will be fair and calm.
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- CommentAuthorSteven
- CommentTimeDec 6th 2011
Essentially, I don't need someone to tell me what Christmas should mean to me! -
- CommentAuthorsdtom
- CommentTimeDec 7th 2011
Steven wrote
Also, I suppose we shouldn't confuse semantics. The true meaning of the word Christmas is indeed Christ's Mass (as far as I know), but the meaning of Christmas as a holiday can be all manner of things to all manner of people.
All about money Steven when it comes to the holiday part of it.
Tomlisten to more classical music!
